[PLEASE HELP] I think I'm starting to fall for this guy but I really don't want to?

if you don't want to fall for him, but you are, it kind of sounds like its meant to be. i dont mean that youre going to get married and live happily ever after, but he sounds like hes trying to prove to you that he's not a d-bag and show who he really is. personally, i think you should give him a chance and tell the Paulie guy that you just want to focus on 1 person. don't open up completely to the other guy though. slowly ease into things and just see how it goes, if he gives up then you know hes not worth it, but if he keeps trying to prove himself to you, then maybe hes worth keeping around. good luck :)